Did you know a man once sent his girlfriend to the hospital when his proposal went awry?
This is a true story! He has placed the engagement ring into a shot glass, and after a speech, they took the shot. Oops, she swallowed the ring instead of finding it. While she did survive, the proposal ended in the hospital’s emergency room.
There are many “embarrassing yet funny” proposals that bring to mind five of the most common ways that guys can totally ruin the moment. One of the most precious moments in your relationship should not be remembered with any of these mistakes.
CREATING A SHOW
Sometimes, men think it is fun to make a public proposal. Whether it is a family event, party or other public setting, don’t propose unless you are absolutely sure she would like that. Not only can a public proposal cause embarrassment, but it may also cause pressure to say yes at that moment even if she is unsure. Think about whether your lady would enjoy the attention, or whether a private proposal would be better.
OVER-DOING THE PROPOSAL
Some men have the idea that if they incorporate all the traditional elements of romance together, they have a proposal. This shows lack of creativity and couldn’t be further from the truth. An example would be a candlelit dinner, flowers, chocolates and the teddy bear – then the proposal.
Yuck. If you think your lady is worthy of the most wonderful experience of her life, then remember that everyday romance stuff should be saved for everyday. Don’t rely on traditional elements to equal a proposal, or she will likely be disappointed.
BEING UNPREPARED
Not to create pressure, but you only get one shot at the perfect proposal. Make sure that you rehearse what you are going to say, have a backup plan, and make sure your idea is safe. If you have an elaborate plan, you will need to use extra caution.
Go through the rehearsal, predict things that might go wrong and have solutions ready. Have your friends brainstorm the different things that can come up on the big day. Of course, life throws some unpredictable surprises at us, but be prepared the best that you can.
SPENDING TOO MUCH MONEY
Some men try to substitute creativity with a price tag. This is how it is possible to spend too much money on a proposal. While it is nice if you can afford an elaborate proposal, keep in mind that you want a proposal that is more than GOOD, you want it to be jaw-dropping. Make sure it is still meaningful to you as a couple.
OVERDONE IDEAS
The biggest mistake men make are using ideas that have been done before. Finding an original, creative idea is a must if you want your proposal to be remembered for years in the future.
Make sure your proposal is personalized to your girl. Think about her interest, hobbies, music and personality. These are the spring board for a proposal that will be remembered.
While taking her to the Eiffel tower, going up in a hot air balloon, or having a ring brought out on a try are “okay”, they are not original and won’t create the unique memory that starts the rest of your lives.
For ideas of how to pop the question, make sure to read “The Romantic’s Guide to Popping the Question”. This book is filled with 101 unique proposal ideas, handpicked as award winning stories from 7,329 entries in world-wide competition.




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