I am in the not-so-lucky position of receiving email after email from authors who want me to review their products and courses devoted to the topic of approaching women. The majority of what I read isn’t worth my time, and definitely would never get my recommendation to anyone else. The biggest problem is they are not original or fresh.

Yet, every now and then I come across a gem that makes all of those wasted hours reviewing worth the search. That is exactly what happened this weekend when I got an email from Slade and Mirabelle from Meet Your Sweet. They are behind some of the best eBooks in the dating industry, and you probably recognize some of the titles:

• Connect and Commit
• 2nd Chance
• Supreme Self Confidence
• Conversation Chemistry
• Get A Guy Guide

“Fireworks with Females” is the newest title from Slade and Mirabelle, and I was blown away by their fresh take on approaching women, seduction, and relationships. One thing I want to note right off is that the title is not comprehensive of what the book includes. Besides blasting off the fireworks, this book gives advice on all of the following:

• Attracting women
• Developing a positive, empowering mindset
• Sustaining attraction over time
• Surviving the first night with a woman
• Maneuvering a long term relationship

There are men who just want to get women in the sack for one night stands, but most of the men who contact me are interested in more. They are ready to find the right women to fall in love with and settle down for a long, happy life.

If you are one of those men who want more, you will never get there with a book of cheesy pick-up lines or a book on body language. You need a book that gives you all of the pieces to the puzzle, and then explains how to connect them together to create something beautiful. Most books give you one or two pieces, but few put everything on the table and then connect them for you the way “Fireworks with Females” does.

Slade and Mirabelle know what it is like to find that special someone, and they walk you through all of the steps. It starts with challenging beliefs that may be standing in your way and moves on to the art of maintaining a positive mindset. It then teaches methods for using that positive mindset to attract women.

“Fireworks with Females” moves beyond the limited scope of other books by teaching you how to take your skills to a new level. You are coached in communication skills, and are taught secrets to understanding the mind of a woman so your relationships thrive in the long term.

People hire life coaches to move forward in their careers, so why not have a personal coach for your love life? That is essentially what you hire when you pick up a copy of this book.

I have read far too many eBooks that take a belittling and insulting tone when talking to men about dating. What caught my attention with this book is that the ideas are challenging and uplifting, so they make men think more than those belittling books. Slade and Mirabelle understand the mental setbacks that have stalled progress for many men, so they are able to subtly coach men into abandoning those mental setbacks and thinking differently.

This is not a book that assumes you know nothing, and then proceeds to teach you nothing new. This is a book that starts with what you already do know and builds you up from there.

This is essentially the thinking man’s guide to approaching women and finding love! The book deals with very powerful mindsets that have the power to transform lives. This is the guide for those who want to attract women in the elite. You can’t get there without some substantial changes in the way you think, and this book guides you through those changes.

There are more than two hundred pages in this book, so there is nothing left to be desired. Most courses from Slade and Mirabelle are comprehensive, so that was no surprise. They include ‘actionable attraction challenges’ which I found to be invaluable. They help you take what you are learning from the course and implement them in your daily life.

What else impressed me?

I cannot say enough about the course itself, but the bonus material that comes with the book is better than average as well. Meet Your Sweet gives you a great eBook, plus bonus material that enhances what is learned in the product. Together, this package will help men approach women with confidence.

Slade Shaw’s “Fireworks with Females” will help all men approach women with greater confidence, and find greater success in the areas of attraction, seduction and relationship sustenance.

After reading this book I found myself wondering what might have happened had I been given this manual when I was single. If you could use a bit of this knowledge yourself, check out this eBook now.

What are your excuses for not being in a solid relationship or settling down to have children like all of your friends? Do you tell yourself that the right significant other just hasn’t come along? Or are you one of the many who try to convince themselves and the world that they are more interested in furthering their career than finding love?

Whatever your excuses may be for not falling in love and running off into the sunset with someone special, you know deep down you are questioning yourself. You are trying to figure out what is wrong with you, and what changes you can make to finally bring love into your life.

Since I am in the business of helping people just like you find love, I have heard all of the excuses and have seen all of the products you might use to fix your problems. I have looked over all of the products promising to help you find a style that will make others drool or teach you pick up lines that work regardless of who they are used on. I have heard and seen enough to know that the majority of resources introduced for people like you aren’t worth getting excited about. Most aren’t even worth buying!

I am skeptical when something new hits my desk promising to help people like you figure out their problems and get lucky in love, but every now and then something does hit my desk that makes me pay attention. These are the worthwhile products that don’t just give the usual spin on old advice, but which actually offer something new that is helpful and worth spending time with.

The new eBook from Slade Shaw of Meet Your Sweet fame is the first product in a long time to pass my skeptical eye and get me excited. This eBook is about one thing that I really believe will put your dating life on new ground: self confidence.

Not only will improved self confidence help you land more dates, but it will help you in all areas of your life. Imagine what you could accomplish in your career and all other aspects of your life if you didn’t doubt yourself all the time. Imagine how you would feel waking up every day knowing you have a valuable direction that your life is headed in. How would it feel to walk into a social situation with complete confidence that you can strike up conversations without any awkwardness?

Slade Shaw’s new eBook, “Supreme Self Confidence in Dating, Relationships & Social Situations,” gives you the tools to make all of that come true. Rather than trying to learn fashion so your belt matches your shoes, work on your self confidence so you can be successful in love regardless of your wardrobe.

The eBook has over 180 pages and gives advice on all of the following, plus more:

• Improving confidence in yourself
• Improving confidence in social settings
• Improving confidence in the business world
• Improving sexual confidence
• Techniques of boosting confidence guaranteed to work

If you do not believe in your own abilities, then why would anyone else fall in love with you and believe in your abilities? Improving your self confidence is the first step to becoming successful in love, as well as in the rest of your life.

Ask yourself whether you are happy sitting back and letting life happen to you, or whether you want to take the initiative to make sure your life goes the way you want it to go. What is it you want in life? Write those things down, and then ask yourself if they are possible without a high level of self confidence. In all likelihood, the answer is no.

Do you want to…

• Be the center of attention at social events?
• Overcome the past so you can create a better future?
• Accomplish all of your life goals?
• Start conversations with anyone and everyone?
• Overcome shyness?
• Excel in situations of great stress?
• Attract love interests and follow through, confident in your sexual skills?

You may be hard up for dates, or you might be a regular Romeo with a full calendar of dates. If you have the slightest hesitation in any of these areas, then this course can help you. We all have room for improvement in our lives, and this book will give you the improvement you need.

This book could be life-changing. I would not be recommending it if I didn’t believe that to be true. Click HERE to check it out for yourself now.

Ever wonder what’s really going on inside a woman’s mind? Today you’re going to find out…

My friend James Bradley has been teaching men how to attract their ideal women since the year 2000, here’s his website:

>> http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/

Recently James interviewed a model called Sarah from San Diego to uncover what she looks for in guys, what’s the one thing a guy could say to her on the street to get her to stop, and what tips she’d give guys who want to know her better.

James found that even though she models parttime, her real dream is to become an interior designer and have a boyfriend who’s just as ambitious. She’s also got a surprising reason why she’d prefer not to meet a guy in a bar or online … read on!

“There’s More to Life than Girls”
Interview with Sarah – 22, Model/Waitress/Student, California

James: Describe yourself. What do you do for a living? What kinds of things do you like to do to relax?

Sarah: I’m studying interior design parttime and waitressing and modeling to pay the bills. To relax, I hang out with friends, go shopping, you know, the regular stuff.

James: Are you single or seeing anyone?

Sarah: I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, so, yeah…. It’s really weird being single again. The worst thing is getting hit on all the time. I mean, I’m a waitress, so I’m used to it, but I used to be able to go out with my boyfriend and have a good time without getting bothered by other guys. Now when I go out, it’s like … yuck. Get away from me.

James: What mistakes are these guys making?

Sarah: Just being too obvious about it, I guess. If I’m out with my friends, I kind of want to hang out with my friends. If a guy comes up to us, we know that he wants to hit on at least one of us. Otherwise, why would he come up?

James: So you would never give a guy who came up to you a chance?

Sarah: I’m not saying that. Obviously, if he’s really cute, I’d at least say hello. I guess I’d rather just meet a guy in a normal place, like through friends or something. Like, I imagine that someday we’re going to get married and everyone’s going to be asking us how we met. I don’t want to say we met in a bar!

James: So you’d rather you had a better story to tell.

Sarah: Exactly. Like, you know, our eyes met across a crowded room or something.

James: What about online dating?

Sarah: That would be worse! Could you imagine saying, “We met online”? I know it’s more socially accepted these days, but I would personally feel uncomfortable admitting to anyone that I had my profile on a website. And a picture of me – definitely not. People pay to take pictures of me, so I’m not just going to be giving them away.

James: How did you meet your last boyfriend?

Sarah: Waitressing, actually. He and his friends used to come in every night at eleven o’clock and order breakfast. It was really weird. They always sat in the same place, so I got to know them pretty well.

James: Why did you break up? If you’re okay about it…

Sarah: Oh, yeah, I’m fine. I felt like he wasn’t really supporting me. Like, he’d make fun of what I wanted to do. He didn’t think I’d ever get a job in interior design and that I was basically wasting my time. You should always support your boyfriend or girlfriend in what they want to do. He wanted me to basically be modeling fulltime, but he has no idea what it’s like.

James: Did you feel like he was just dating you for your looks?

Sarah: Sometimes. He used to refer to me as “my girlfriend the model.” I guess “my girlfriend the designer” didn’t sound as good to him.

James: What are you looking for in a guy now?

Sarah: Someone who’s funny and really interesting and romantic. My ex used to invite me over and then spend all of his time on the computer. I’m like, “I don’t care about your computer. Let’s do something.” I see this with all my friends’ boyfriends. They’re more interested in getting pizza and a movie on Saturday night than doing something fun. They’re like, “It will cost money.” So what?

James: So you want someone who isn’t boring.

Sarah: Yeah, for sure. Someone who actually has a life. That’s the great thing with being at school because you’re surrounded by people who have these goals. They’re working to get somewhere. Compared with my ex-boyfriend and his friends, who just wanted to hang out and have enough money to spend on beer and their cars.

James: What would show you that a guy had a life?

Sarah: He’d be doing cool things. Like, I don’t know, going to different places and have all these different people he knows. That’s really attractive: when everyone knows your guy. I dated a guy once who was nicknamed the “Mayor” because everyone knew him. We’d go into, like, a grocery store, and people would be stopping him and saying, “What’s up?” That was great.

Other things, I guess, would be that he was earning good money, because if you don’t have a life you don’t have money. I don’t feel like I’m there yet, but once I’m an interior designer I’ll have enough money for my own apartment and really awesome shoes.

Yeah, just doing more than sitting around with his buddies.

James: If a guy stopped you on the street right now, what’s the one thing he could say to you to make you want to be with him?

Sarah: “You’re hot, I want you”? Probably not. Not unless the guy was really good-looking. Usually, if a guy stopped me on the street, I’d either think that he needed help or that something was wrong with him, like he wanted money or something. Asking for directions is always good. Especially if it’s somewhere close, like I could walk him there.

James: How long does it take for you to decide if you want to get to know someone further?

Sarah: Usually almost instantly. Sometimes my first impression is wrong, but it’s more in terms of, “You’re nice to talk to,” rather than, “Oh my god, you’re so hot.” You can tell if a guy has a lot going for him right off the bat. Just stuff like the way he walks, you know, how he smiles, whether he works out…. What really annoys me are the guys who want to meet you, like, they’ll think up some clever line like I’m supposed to give them a treat just for coming up to me. No clue that I’m a real person. Sometimes they’ll even talk to my clothes, like I’m not even there. I’m saying “clothes,” but you know what I mean. Come on, get a grip!

James: What tips would you give guys who want to get to know you better?

Sarah: Just treat me like a real person. Respect what I want to do. Don’t try to get me into bed. Have a life of your own that’s actually interesting. There’s more to life than computers and music and cars, you know? Oh, and even girls. Yeah, there’s more to life than girls. Once you get that, then come back to me.

*** Top 5 Tips to Remember ***

1. If you’re dating a woman who makes money off her looks, you need to show her that you “get” her life better than she does. Women in high-profile industries, like modeling or acting, often feel like nobody understands what their life is like or how hard it is to be them. You do. Just check out Style’s interview of Britney Spears in The Game. Once you show her that you not only “get” her but can even “read” her mind and tell her what she’s feeling, she’ll be putty in your hands.

Never give her the impression that what she does is unusual, high status, or affects you in any way. You’re not dating her because she’s a model or because she’s an actress; you’re dating her because she’s interesting and she amuses you.

2. Become a regular. Not only does being a regular at a particular bar/coffee shop/cafe/restaurant automatically give you higher status, because the waitstaff will recognize you and give you preferential treatment, but it’s a perfect opportunity to network. Especially in L.A., there are a lot of aspiring actresses/musicians/whatever who are putting in their time waiting tables until they make it big. Make their life easier by being the regular they look forward to seeing again.

3. Know people. People who are known by a lot of people are automatically considered higher status. It’s just like the most popular guy in school – he was popular because everyone knew who he was or wanted to know him. Make the effort to get to know people, no matter how insignificant they might be. Remember their name and a few details about them, enough to ask about their kids or their job or the trip they just went on.

4. Be learning at least one new skill at all times. As much fun as surfing the net and playing Playstation are, they don’t exactly scream “high-status male.” Expand your interests and pick up at least one unique hobby. Learn the guitar. Try snowboarding. Up your snob factor with a class in wine appreciation, cooking, or even ballroom dancing. The idea isn’t to brag about your interests; it’s to expand your knowledge so that when you get invited to the slopes, order wine at a restaurant, or have to attend a black-tie event, you actually know what to do.

5. Give a girl something to talk about to her friends. As much as it may seem like a waste of time to think up creative dates or unusual ways to introduce yourself to a girl, choose something memorable over something practical every time. Women will think about things like how they’re going to tell your children you met, even if you barely know one another. Give her experiences that she can relate to her friends, and, even if you end up breaking up, all her friends will want to date you.

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I hope you enjoyed reading the above article by James Bradley. James has also developed a comprehensive system for training guys to be irresistible to women.

I strongly recommend you go and get yourself a copy right here:

>> http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/

Relationships can get messy, and there may come a time in life when you desperately need to find a way to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him for good. Many times relationships fall apart due to simple misunderstandings and when this is the case there is a good chance you both still have feelings for each other. In some situations, all you may need to do is bite the bullet and make an apology. When your love is on the line, it is easier to be the bigger person.

There is a variety of technology available today that can help you get him back, however if you feel like calling, texting or emailing would simply be to embarrassing perhaps you should opt for a meeting place. Having coffee or a light lunch together in a quiet place where you can talk could be all you need to get things back on track. Just remember to keep it light, no re-hashing the problems with your relationship. Friendly is the key to getting him back into your life.

Another way to keep him interested is by improving yourself. Take a look at your life and determine the areas you would like to change, this may inspire him to do the same. This could become a potential talking point for the two of you as he inquires about the changes you are making. As you begin putting your life together and succeeding, he may also view you in a different light.

In order to get back together with your ex one thing that is helpful is considering what went wrong and what mistakes were made. Not so, that one person can simply lay blame and walk away but so that the two of you can come to a solution for what went wrong. This can be a difficult and even painful procedure, but once completed the rest comes relatively easy.

Honestly, no matter who caused the breakup, you likely both made a few mistakes, and we can all be better people if we are willing to change. This is a great place to begin your journey back to a solid relationship. Not only does this give you a chance of reconciling, but if you do rebuild your relationship, you will have a better chance of working things out.

Do not forget to spend time doing things and sharing good times with people you like. Everything cannot be about the break up, and you are going to need breathing room to think about and deal with issues. Distractions will also help the time go by faster as you take chances and rebuild your life.

When you finally worked a few things out, you will need to communicate with one another. Here are the top 10 ways you can do this:

• Letter
• ad in the paper
• Twitter
• Facebook
• Email
• text
• instant message
• phone call
• mutual friends
• Last but never least, the ever popular, skywriting

It is not so important which method you use, but that you remember to do all that you can to ensure the relationship remains strong after you get back together with your ex boyfriend. You will both be much happier in the end.